Everybody keeps on saying it, but sometimes when you’re in a quiet room all by yourself, and reflect on the past few days or weeks of your life, you just can’t help but think about how time passed by so quickly.
Does this happen to you too or is it just me?
I find that I’m always absorbed with work or a particular project and when I emerge from that haze, I feel like time just slipped past without me noticing at all. I always feel like this a few days before the year ends. I regret that I wasted so much time. It’s not so bad for 2014 compared to 2013 because last year, I got to travel a lot and I think I finally found what I would really love to do for a living, but I guess I shouldn’t regret because it did lead me to this point.
So why am I yammering about time you ask? Well, it’s because this year, I’ve decided to do a recap of my year with a monthly highlight or two.
Ready? Brace yourself because this is one long trip down the memory lane.
was for recalibration
A fresh and new beginning from 2013. I was really happy to start the year with a trip out of the country. I desperately needed some time off, away from all the craziness in Manila, and this was just perfect.
Trip to Hongkong and Macau
Nothing out of the ordinary since I’ve been to HK several times, but this time we took the time to visit Macau and I organized the trip on my own. From booking the airline tickets down to the itinerary, my mom gave me free rein since my dad didn’t want to go on the trip. (Don’t ask me why he didn’t want to come along. I don’t understand either.)
It was really fun and memorable because we discovered how to go around Macau on our own using the free shuttle services and on foot. I really enjoy traveling, especially when I get to walk around foreign cities, so this was really fun for me. I was surprised my mom didn’t complain because we walked a lot on this trip. We even took the ferry to Hongkong and from the docking area, we walked to our hotel. We usually book a room in Marco Polo, which would have been the hotel right in front of the harbor, but this time I booked in the Holiday Inn which is a couple of streets across. This walk, along with the luggage dragging, is what made my mom complain. haha!
I also went on a couple of solo walks in the evening, hunting for places to eat and makeup shopping. Yeah, you might recall the makeup haul that took place. I am yet to open some of the things I bought. Oops.
recharge and renew
I went home to Isabela for a couple of days to renew my passport, but I ended up renewing much more than just that. Oh and that’s pancit cabagan in the photo, one of my favorite dishes from Isabela.
Visited my hometown this month. It was a really quick trip, and I flew in because I didn’t have time to waste on the drive to and from Manila. I haven’t gone to Isabela for the whole 2013, and looking back, the visit was something that I never realized I needed until I went back.
Returning to the place where you grew up and everyone knows you is a great way to retrieve something that you lost unconsciously. People remember me as I was the last time I visited and how I’ve always been and that kind of treatment from the people you’ve know your entire life does something to you. Sometimes, we lose pieces of ourselves without even noticing it until the people who knew you unconsciously return the broken fragments and you’re able to piece it back together. It’s never the same as before but it’s better than having that gaping hole in your heart.
Am I making sense? Probably not, but I’m being vague on purpose so it’s fine if you think I went off the rails on that part.
When I started wakeboarding last November 2013, I was excited but I never expected to be a natural at the sport. I didn’t expect it to become a fever in my blood either. After receiving my job promotion as PR & Digital Marketing Officer for both Yabu and Ippudo Philippines, I decided to celebrate and finally upgrade to a better wakeboard set up.
Which brings me to the next month….
setbacks and lesson learned
Picking up where we left off, I upgraded to a new wakeboard set up, started learning how to hit the rails (wakeboard obstacles). Unfortunately, I injured my right knee on one of those riding sessions. It was a long and slow road to recovery involving pain, more pain, an MRI scan, several rehab sessions and the worst part? No wakeboarding until I healed.
I am very thankful to my friend, Louie, who helped me out and took me to the hospital for the MRI scan and rehab sessions, since I couldn’t drive in the early days of the injury. My wakeboard buddy, Jomark, who also skipped riding for 5 long weeks just so I won’t feel so bad about the “suspension” from the wakepark. Thank you. You didn’t have to but I really appreciate it.
This is a lesson on not biting off more than what I can chew and to ensure that the odds are in my favor when taking a big risk. Especially when it involves any of my limbs. haha!
most eventful month of the year + birth month
Yes, it has to be a collage because too many awesome things happened on my birth month.
- 2 birthday parties – 1 fun night out with my cousins and friends at 71 Grammercy for the birthday salubong (thanks ate Mae and kuya Jun!) and 1 house party for the family and more friends. It was one of my best birthday celebrations by far.
- Wedding – My cousin finally tied the knot with his long time girlfriend at Las Casas Filipinas de Acuzar. Part of the reason why we celebrated my birthday twice was due to relatives pouring in from the US and provinces to attend the wedding.
- First Solo Trip Abroad – I booked round trip tickets to Cambodia and I was surprised when my parents allowed me to go and even gave me pocket money. It’s my second time in Siem Reap but first time to travel solo and stay in a hostel. 3 words. BEST. TRIP. EVER. ❤
*Bonus – I started riding again this month!*
Indulging on New Things
Yes, I finally have the Alexander Wang Rocco Bag! It’s not the black one that I’ve always wanted but I love this nonetheless. It’s one of the earlier designs and my dear friend, JP Singson of JP on Fashion Speed, decided to sell this because he’s outgrown the design already.
He actually had the Black Diego as well, and I was torn between the black one and the design I wanted. It was a hard decision to make but I eventually picked the Rocco. No regrets.
I was also lucky to catch the tail end of the windsurfing season with a bunch of friends in Anilao. We stayed overnight at the Philippines Windsurfing Camp, learned the ropes and had tons of fun before heading back to Manila.
Madness, makeup hoarding and a good break
By “madness” I meant makeup induced madness. I decided to buy 2 MAC paint pots and the Pure Heroine lipstick due to sheer obsession. What else would trigger that makeup hoarding? I also got invited to attend the launch of the Beauty Scents outlet store in Paseo de Sta. Rosa, which is one of the biggest events I’ve been invited to since I started blogging.
Oh, and as if the makeup haul wasn’t enough, I ended up selling my Liquid Force Peak 2013 board and forked out more cash to upgrade to my dream board, the Liquid Force 2014 FLX.
Oh the joy and the madness.
More madness ensues as I plow through piles of paperwork for VISA applications and travel arrangements, which means we need to hop over to…
Reunion and fulfillment of a dream destination
Reunited with one of my best friends who currently resides in Vancouver, Kwi! Thank you for showing me around downtown Vancouver, Gastown and the delicious dinner at Miku. ❤ Looking forward to your return to MNL!
This trip was whirlwind of surreal and beautiful destinations, but let me leave you with a gorgeous postcard from Tracy Arm, Alaska.
I will work on my travel diaries. I promise.
Return to Reality
Yep. The trip was amazing. Now make way because I have a bajillion things to do, and I wish I just made that up but I totally didn’t.
I was away for almost 3 weeks for the Alaska trip and I had zero time to spare when I got back because we had to prepare for the grand launch of the first Ippudo store.
I leave you with several food posts and this photo of me with the mandatory cup of coffee taken during the crazy pre-launch days. At this point, I was trying to shake off my coffee habit, but I couldn’t because I needed the caffeine boost. I was even reduced to wearing rubber shoes the day before the launch. I never wear rubber shoes to work. The intern from the PR company thought I was an intern as well. lolwut, right? It’s the trainers. I swear.
no rest for the wicked
Yep, work continues to pour in. After 7 launch parties for Ippudo in Mega Fashion Hall, yes that’s right, 7 as in SEVEN insane parties, we went right back to the drawing board and threw a launch party for the opening of Yabu in Powerplant. Then the KatsuFor200 a few weeks after.
Rest, is not part of the SHG president’s vocab.
On top of the day job, I also set up a temporary online store for a mini blog sale. I sold off most of the makeup items that I haven’t used in the past few months….
Or I should probably be honest and admit that I did this to make room for my recent makeup purchases. erm… Yeah, anyway, I was about to say that it was really fun and satisfying to sell them off because I feel bad knowing the makeup is just sitting in the drawer and collecting dust. I was surprised that I sold almost all of the items and I even earned enough money to get myself a GoPro! ❤
2 birds 1 stone.
I also decided to cut my hair. Hello lob!
Oh and yes, I finally landed the Kicker rail this month. That’s the rail that caused my injury back in April.
retreat, reflect, strategize, and execute
When November kicked in, I couldn’t believe that I was on a 3 week vacation just a few weeks ago. I felt seriously drained and in need of some time off. The weekly wakeboarding trips to Pampanga just weren’t cutting it anymore. When my friend Timmy asked me if I would like to go to Sagada with her group of friends, I jumped in head first and said YES! Then agonized for the next few hours on how to get my boss to approve another leave request from me. haha!
Good thing she approved it so I left for Sagada the next evening. I love Alaska, I really did. I also enjoyed my stay in Canada, but Sagada was just off the charts amazing! I enjoyed the physically challenging activities, the awesome food, great company and inner peace. For the first time in a long time, I felt totally at peace with myself.
I ended up making a decision that I’ve been putting off for a long time. I’m happy I did.
So what is the decision?
So we’re at the final and present leg of this time capsule.
Before we tackle the heavy stuff, I just want to share that I finally made a separate Instagram account for all my makeup posts. I’ve accepted the inevitable separation of accounts to keep from spamming my non-makeup-fan followers.
Now, I guess I can no longer delay telling you about it.
This will probably come as a surprise to many of the people I’ve worked with, but I finally bit the bullet and resigned from my current post at Standard Hospitality Group. I ended my tenure last January 15.
I just want to make it clear, I have nothing against the company. I loved and enjoyed working for Yabu and Ippudo, and part of me is sad that I will no longer be part of the SHG family and I have to let go of the brands that I handled and helped to build for the past 2 years. However, I also feel that I’ve done my part and it’s time to move on and begin going after my own dreams instead of making other people’s dreams happen.
It’s finally coming together and I cannot wait to open the next chapter of my life.
2014 taught me a lot of things about myself. Things I need to change, things I need to relearn and things I need to start doing.
Cheers to a fruitful year filled with friendship, travels, discovery and success.
I am liking you so far, 2015. Let’s hope this year will be even better than 2014.